Escort Etiquette
The following was not written, or linked to, to promote any sort of illegal activity, but merely to inform as to how a client can improve his sessions.
The link below provides an excellent listing of what is generally expected from a client before and during a session. Though not all are hard and fast rules, many are so important that all conversation may end abruptly or your email ignored if not followed. This should be a helpful guide!
For Newbies: please follow this advice well for a good chance at an appointment. And understand that the less said the better, especially in a first session. Let prudence guide you. It’s easy to trip yourself up. If the escort has another agenda besides a nice session, attempting to clarify and ensure what will happen by being indiscreet won’t help. The deceitful simply lie; the genuine ask you to leave.
For Those With Experience: please realize that everyone has different levels of expectation for a wide variety of reasons, many quite sound but not to be discussed. Arguing against most, if any, of these is rarely effective, usually ends discussion, and typifies you as difficult if not a serious risk to health and safety.
Would you truly feel comfortable with someone who thinks so little of her own safety (and likely therefore has little in her life to protect, or is desperate) that she would ignore basic safeguards that most follow as a matter of course?
Good reading, good luck & lots of fun awaits!
Where I vary from the above site:
# 2 - The last two lines aren’t acceptable for three reasons:
A) a caller discussing a session on the phone too often intends only harassment or self-gratification (most women are all too familiar with this);
B) emails, as recorded verbal discussion, can be read, collected and digitally cut and pasted to create the appearance of a nonexistent illegal agreement.
Assume all written (and verbal!) communication is being collected as well as manipulated, and that no key words are used for ammunition to imply illegal acts! There needn't be much! It has happened, and technology grows daily.
# 4 – Additional Explanation:
A) For outcalls to hotels: there is usually a requirement of both legal first and last name to call you back through the front desk to ensure that you are in the specific room provided as well as proof of name, residence state and city (address can be covered), and preferably work and personal phone numbers. Much time and expense is wasted, and additional risk added, if the caller is disreputable. Also, a real client may have been missed.
B) The more information you provide, the more likely you’ll get an appointment. In most of the country, far more information is required, sometimes even work ID, home address, and car license plate #! All to make sure you are who you say you are, mostly to inhibit violence. Most reputable clients offer these anyway, and those are the clients we feel most comfortable with and are therefore more relaxed with.
Anyone in business for very long (and therefore tried and true) wouldn't use this information for any other purpose, wouldn't keep the information around, or she wouldn't still be in business and would put herself at great risk. Wealthy and well-known clients are common, and we like to keep it that way. Anyone "new" to the business would be your risk.
# 6 – Leaving the fee in an envelope leaves many rightly wondering what's actually in it and uncomfortable about proceeding. I've heard of too many instances where an envelope was empty, filled with counterfeits or simply paper. An envelope seems to be some assumed protection, but makes little sense.
I'm more concerned when an envelope is sealed, especially because I never touch the fee until some time into the session, if we're both comfortable. Money orders, cashier's checks, and traveler's checks are rarely accepted; too many counterfeits are floating about, and if deposited in a bank, they are automatically directed from there straight to the FBI. Credit cards are iffy due to the fact that the charge can be reversed after and, to add injury to insult, fraud alleged.
Hope this helps to clarify any confusion or ambiguity. Following this advice will make a preliminary session more relaxed, and therefore more fun and fulfilling.
Thanks!
Megan